Tuesday, October 18, 2016

The Weekend

We did it!  30 miles, lots and lots of laughter, a few tears, some very ugly blisters and much gratitude for dear friends.  I feel so privileged to have been able to be a part of this incredible experience with Candace, who is just finishing up her year long fight with breast cancer.  It felt really good to be a part of something so big and that is doing so much good.

30 miles of walking was hard!  Fortunately, that left us with lots of time for chatting, which is something we are very good at.  Also, I now feel like I know Atlanta in a way that I didn't before! We walked by landmarks and beautiful neighborhoods which I had never been in and it was a treat to see them.

The crew for the walk was fantastic.  They were cheering you on every step of the way and there outfits were so fun to see!

At the end of the first day, there was a dinner where everyone came in their pajamas.  Julie got us all cute pajama bottoms and shirts.

The first day we walked 20 miles and the second day was 10.  We finished up in front of the capital building with a beautiful ceremony celebrating those who are survivors and those who are still fighting the fight.  Let's pray that they soon find a cure.

Thursday, October 13, 2016

Breast Cancer Walk

I'm flying down to Atlanta tomorrow to participate in the Atlanta 2-Day Walk for Breast Cancer.  I'm walking with, and in honor of, my dear friend, Candace.  She just finished up her last radiation treatment and I couldn't be more proud of her and the way she has handled this horrible disease with courage and grace.

the ladies I'm walking with (Candace is right beside me)

I want to share her story with you in the hopes that it might help just one person...

In December of 2015, I got quite a shock. I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I've had many people ask me how it was discovered, so I thought I would share my story if it could possibly make a difference for even one woman.

I did feel something, but it was not the typical lump that you would think of. From things I had read and heard, it felt like fibroid tissue so I didn't really do much. Then a week or so later, I started to have shooting pains in my breast. I tried to stay off the internet, but eventually I did start to look things up. And much to my relief, I was finding that breast pain isn't usually associated with breast cancer. But fortunately it bothered me enough that I went ahead and called the doctor to schedule a mammogram. I had to have a physical exam first though to get the mammogram referral. The dr. was not my regular doctor. My doctor was out on personal leave, but I needed to be eased so I chose not to wait. I went in for my appt feeling stressed and fearful and after a very SHORT exam, the doctor tried to ease my worries, and said to me, "Don't worry. You don't have cancer." Now this is where I want everyone to take note. I could have easily skipped the mammogram at this point after hearing FROM THE DOCTOR THAT I DON'T HAVE CANCER. But THANKFULLY I went ahead and had the mammogram. And the rest is history.

I was called in several more times, and on December 23rd, the day before our first Christmas celebration, sitting in a shopping center parking lot, my breast surgeon called me at 6:30 that evening to let me know it was cancer. The lump they discovered was in fairly deep tissue and was not noticeable by a physical exam. And I was told that the pain I was experiencing had nothing to do with it. So I don't know why or what, but I decided that the pain was a divine intervention to get me to go have a mammogram. So if I can give any advice through all of this, I would say Just go. Don't ignore. Even if it's scary. Even if you think it's probably nothing. I can't imagine what would have been my news or fate had I waited.
So it's definitely been a journey. I had a lumpectomy in February, 4 rounds of chemotherapy and 6 weeks of radiation. My last radiation treatment is next week. It wasn't always easy, but overall I felt blessed that my body seemed to handle everything fairly well. I even continued to work and go about our life as much as I was able to. I am so appreciative for that and for all of the support along the way. From Jeff and the kids' unconditional love, to my parents coming up for every round of chemo, for my extended family regularly sending me texts and cards, to Facebook friends constantly sending me love and support through my posts, and to my friends and neighbors that fed and cared for us for several months. I'm indebted to you all.
Back in March, a few of my closest friends told me they would do this 2 day walk with me. At the time, I did not know that I would be doing chemo. And I also didn't know that I wouldn't finish things up until less than 2 weeks before the event. But I decided to still try and go through with it. It's something that I've actually wanted to do for years. Except now we would be walking for me. 
So I thank you in advance for any support you can give me and my team to participate in this walk. I feel that it will be the best way to wrap this year up and look to the future with hope and love for myself and many other women.

I met Candace through a group of women that I've mentioned many times here on the blog.  We named our group of girlfriends "Baby Club" and that name has stuck all these years.  So naturally we named our walking team, Booby Club!  I hate asking for money, and I've certainly never done anything like that on the blog, but if anyone wants to support our team here is the link.  We haven't met our goal quite yet but I have confidence we will!  Thank you, thank you, thank you to those that have already supported us!  

Monday, October 10, 2016

Planting Peonies

There is so much to do here at Frog's Hollow that it sometimes is hard to know where to start, but I know that one can never go wrong with flowers and so that is where we have found ourselves working... in the garden.  Or what will eventually be the garden.

Peonies can take several years to really get going and so I knew that I wanted to get them in the ground in our very first season here.  Fall is the optimum time to get them planted as they do best being planted bare root.

Last spring, before we left for the trip, I ordered 25 peonies and then promptly forgot about them.  So I couldn't have been more surprised when they showed up on my doorstep two weeks ago!  Clearly, when I ordered them I thought that I would have been further along than I am.  Or perhaps I thought I'd need a big kick in the behind.  Either way, these peonies had to get in the ground and quickly.

We have a lot of shale so we had to get creative in our digging!

I plan on having a rather large combined flower and vegetable garden.  I already had a pretty clear idea of the garden layout, but Bryce and I spent a fair amount of time planning, marking and discussing the garden (a story for a later post).  Once we had the layout, we were able to mark it off and begin prepping the peony beds.  We have four long peony beds with 6 peonies each.

After planting, peonies do well being left alone, but properly preparing the area where they are planted can go along way in giving them the best start possible.  We made sure to dig at least 18 inches down and out, fill the hole with manure, and load nice, loose soil on top of the manure (the roots shouldn't go on top of manure directly) before putting the roots in with the eyes about two inches under the top of the soil.  We had a pretty handy and handsome helper.

Several years ago, my sister gave me the book, Peonies, The Imperial Flower by Jane Fearnley-Whittingstall.  I love it as it is filled with everything to know about peonies; including the history of peonies, art through the ages concerning peonies, lists of fine specimens and advice on growing them! It was this book that I used fairly heavily when deciding what peonies to plant.  I ordered my peonies online from these sources: Klehms Song Sparrow, Adelman Peony Gardens and Hollingsworth Peonies.  I've used Klehms Song Sparrow before and have had great success, but they didn't have all the varieties I was looking for this year.

Friday, September 30, 2016

Twin Beds in The Cottage

I've mentioned The Cottage before, but I haven't posted about my favorite thing in the cottage yet. The cottage was renovated back in 2008 for the previous owner's ill husband.  We believe the idea was that he would live in the cottage (it's one story) during his illness.   It's a one bedroom cottage with a kitchen, living room, two bathrooms (they added a rather large bathroom for accessibility) and a closet.

While it's certainly spacious enough for a family to stay in, I needed to find a way to fit in extra sleeping outside of the one bedroom.  My idea was that I wanted room for children to sleep comfortably in the cottage.  When families come visit I wanted everyone to have a bed.  The living room is very spacious and I decided that in addition to it being a living area, it could perform as a guest room too.  Using the idea of a bunk room, but without the bunks, I fit in two twin beds foot to foot.  The denim sofa is also a sleeper!

Perhaps it's because I had been watching season 2 of Downton Abbey with Grace, but I really wanted what I call an "infirmary style" of bed.  I love the clean and simple lines, that they are made of metal, are highly functional, but charming as well.  Oh, and I didn't want to spend much money.  It turns out that it's a lot harder to find that style of bed period- forget about inexpensively! After lots and lots of Google searches, I was getting very frustrated when the perfect bed popped up!  It was a slam dunk because it was what I was looking for in every single way; color, the style and the price.  What I couldn't believe was that it was from Wal-Mart!  These beds are perfect and I love them in the space!

I also got lights for over the beds from Barn Light Electric.  The cottage has an awesome view of the little barn and I wanted to play off of that so I stuck with barn style lights.  My favorite feature is the striped cord.  How fun is that?

Monday, September 26, 2016

A Farm Lane

The last thing we have done in regards to the barn is put in a farm lane.  When we bought the house there was a partial lane in the form of crumbling asphalt.  Knowing that we wanted to put the Airstream back in the barn, we knew that whatever we installed had to be very functional, but I also wanted it to be charming and beautiful.


I've always loved the look of dirt roads with grass in between and after some going back and forth we decided to go with pea gravel and grass.  A dirt road would get too rutted with any rain we got and would not be conducive to walking out to the barn.

The road was installed with a base layer of recycled concrete that was tamped down and the pea gravel was installed on top of that.

We installed the road right before we left and therefore couldn't really spend any time babying the new grass this summer, therefore it's mostly crabgrass with some grass sprinkled in!  This fall we will reseed and try again.  Hey, at least it's green!

Friday, September 23, 2016

The Barn

You guys, the house is an absolute mess.  There are boxes everywhere, and I don't want to unpack everything if we just are going to pack again when we do the kitchen renovation (I have a lot, and I mean a lot, of kitchen stuff!).  We have a long way to go to making this house what we envision but I wake up every single morning so grateful to call this place home.  I also wake up everything morning with a view of the barn at Frog's Hollow and it makes me smile every single time.


The barn is not close to the house but rather a fair distance away.  Funny story, one of the architects we had come look at the house actually suggested we move the barn closer to the house!   I love the view of the barn from the back of the house and wouldn't dream of trying to move it (much less pay for it!).

There are a few things that we did to gussy up the barn, including making it ready for the Airstream, that I want to share.  In addition to simply cleaning it up inside, we made a pea gravel area outside the barn, ran full electricity to the barn and added a barn light.

I think every barn should have a barn light and I love this one that we got from Barn Light Electric.

We also found a big slab of stone on our property and moved it to the threshold of the barn door.  I love how it looks.

The pea gravel area makes the barn look a little more finished and tidy.  We had a barn party a couple of weeks after we got back and this gravel area was wonderful since it kept us out of the dirt/grass and was the perfect place to set up some tables.

Bryce also ran strings of light over the area!

For now the barn is all settled and nothing else needs to be done immediately (except the roof come to think of it) but I already have my eyes set on the loft.  Oh, the possibilities!

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